Calm Mama, Peaceful Family

What If You Could Master The Arts Of Conscious Communication And Conflict Resolution- Bringing Peace, Connection And Co-Operation To Your Family In Only 12 Weeks?

Dear stressed, stretched (but deeply loving) mother...

I see you, waking up tired, possibly with children climbing on you.
Barely getting time to slow down and just breathe,
let alone go to the toilet in peace.

Juggling so much, and so many different needs- constantly.

Unable to stop yourself turning into manic, yelling dictator...
or a disempowered heap of fed up ‘can’t copeness’...
And feeling deep regret at not showing up in the conscious, connected ways you yearn to.

Often wanting a break... sooo bad!
But also, not even knowing what you’d do if you had one because your children are so much your world, and the love you feel for them is immense and like no other.

Lisa and I (it's Kaya here) have both been down in the motherhood trenches too.

I can remember many times I've yelled and screamed at my children
(and to be honest, some of the times invoked so much shame and regret that I blurred out the memories)
I also remember breaking down in despair, deciding it’s all too hard and I want to check out from this crazy job I can’t believe I took on.

Every mother we've spoken with has also been there

AND every one of them felt like they were particularly shit at parenting-
'You’ve no idea how much of a shamefully crazy, psycho mama I can be!!!’

or their relational dynamics with their children were way more out of control than others-
‘my kids are embarrassingly nuts and I have zero control in my house :/ !’

So you’re not alone in it, none of us are.

And you’re also not alone in being able to change this and bring more joy and connection into your family,
because we have, and so have the many, many women we’ve worked with.

But if you want real change...
Just learning another theory or memorising another strategy won't cut it (it can actually make you more despondent, as the distance between what you know in theory and what you actually do moves further apart).

Learning theory and strategies is an important part of creating change, BUT you also need to experience real consciousness shifts and healing within yourself... And you need to experience those consciousness shifts in-the-moment, as you’re living the full and intense life of a mother navigating conflict.

And that is what this course will give you.
It bridges the gap between the learning and the actual doing.
It's a deep dive into the consciousness shifts it takes to create real, sustainable peace and connection in your home.
The tools, theories and strategies are in there but not without the guidance to really take them in, embody them and apply them-

Because you need real change, you need to feel yourself changing from the inside out and you need to act from that new place in the triggering, 'everything happening at once' moments of motherhood.

"This work resonates with me on a soul-nourishing level. Before partaking in this course I felt heartbroken, disillusioned and so upset that all the wonderful parenting philosophies I always read seemed so inspiring on paper, but just couldn’t translate into in-the-moment reality when I needed it the most. I was always left parenting through my same old automatic reaction, no matter how hard I tried to do it differently. Kaya and Lisa guide me to finding my own truth as a parent, which I then implement with such a natural ease, the likes of which I have never experienced when trying on someone else’s parenting theory, no matter how inspiring. Before this course I was a Yeller. My yelling has dropped by about 90%. It’s now the exception, instead of the rule. I finally feel I have my hands on how to be the mother, partner, woman I truly long to be – for myself and my family. This work is sumptuous, nurturing, soft, strong and gentle; it will return you to yourself. Dive in and drink for your soul"

April Bevin
(Mother of 3)

If you’re ready to finally stop losing it at your children and completely change the ways your family does conflict in just 90 days-

(and ongoing- you'll have lifetime access to the course, and when you implement what you learn, it will become a part of who you are as mother)-

Then choose a payment plan that feels right, clear, and fair to you.

This program has been selling for $360 for a few years and you may choose to pay that, or you may choose more or less.

We are currently experimenting with offering this full program on a 'pay what you choose' basis, trusting the generosity of mothers who are called to this work to support us in developing and sustaining it.

We trust your judgment about what represents a commitment and fair exchange on your part and we respect your financial situation.

If this experiment works well (it's sustainable for us and our business & we reach many mothers committed to going through the course) then we we'll continue with it.

When you join, you get instant access to the entire course, to the life and relationship transformation it brings and to the peace, connection, ease and joy you've been craving (but been unable to access, simply because you didn't yet have the support and resources you need).

We trust you will start seeing results in the first week and start feeling more calm and connected right away.

All there is to do is choose a payment amount that feels right for you, click on it, enter your details into our super secure server and you’ll immediately be taken to the course.

If you somehow get lost or lose your log in details, you can email us- [email protected] and we’ll get back to you within 48 business hours

(you are then our client, we'll treat you as such and be there for you as much as we possibly can!).

Click on a payment option, follow the link to register and we'll see you inside the course!

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"Before coming to the course I was not enjoying my children and was struggling a lot with their fights and with my anger. Now I feel way more connected. I am enjoying being with them more and I am not so reactive when they fight. Some of my most memorable wins that came out of doing the course are connecting with my daughter after feeling very disconnected from her and also how I am now changing conflict with humour that before seemed overwhelming. It helped me to gently connect to what is moving deep inside, becoming aware of what I need and want, consciously moving forward from that place and authentically communicating."

Rilka Oakley
(Mother of 4)

What we're sharing is a distillation of what we've learnt as mothers

Here’s what this work has given us & hundreds of women around the world and what it will give you too-

Everything you need to show up as the conscious, connected mother that you truly can be if you weren’t so stretched, exhausted and overwhelmed
Simple yet powerful (and mostly untapped) ways to feel way more energy & clarity that are inherently available to you as a woman and a mother
The awareness and presence to choose conscious, connecting communication over reactive, disconnecting communication
A deep sense of confidence and peace within yourself as a mother
The exact roadmap to becoming the unique and best mother you know you need to be for your children
The power to be a strong, effective and respected voice in your family without compromising your values or losing your connection with your children

A mostly unknown communication tool that you can bring into every single situation to immediately put the fire out
The tools and awareness to parent in alignment with your unique values and in ways that work for your unique children
True, sustainable, mutually trusting connection with your children, and a healing of the bonds you share together
A completely different approach to conflict. Being less reactive and more calm, aware and effective, no longer feeling overwhelmed by or scared of conflict and no longer feeling like you need to take sides or resort to ultimatums.
More patience, presence and peace, making yelling and losing it a rare experience in your family life
A completely different way to work with intense emotions (yours and your loved ones) that brings healing to everyone and makes sure emotions don’t control your behaviour

The awareness to bring what you feel, want and need into the equation (and before that- actually know what you feel, want and need) in ways that don’t take away from your children (and instead gives them a way more present, loving, connected, whole mother)
The tools to meet everyone’s needs (including your own) with far more ease than you could imagine
The ability to mediate conflict resolutionbetween your children and between your partner and children- in effective ways that respect and empower everyone
Tools and the inner resources to authentically play and have more fun with your children
Concrete communication strategies to really be listened to, respected and taken seriously in your family
Freedom from those deep seated, intergenerational, destructive family patterns you seem to repeat again and again

Ways to help your child heal and release stuck patterns and emotions and come into their beautiful wholeness again
Strategies to empower your children to handle their own big emotions and to constructively work through conflict together
Liberation from isolating fears and low self worth that keeps you lonely on your journey through motherhood- making space for the safe, real and sacred community you need around youwhile you raise your children
Tools to navigate conflict with your partner in the best ways possible, also when its in front of your children
Ways to reconnect with your partner, re-establish intimacy and understand and appreciate each other all over again
Powerful shifts within yourself that have you feel more spacious, relaxed, patient, grounded, at ease and abundant in time, no matter how full and intensive your life with your children is

"Before I started this course, I often felt like I was missing the key to being the perfect natural mother to my toddler. I assumed that everyone else had the answers and if I just read the right book or blog I would become this mythical creature. Throughout the course I learned that the mother I want to be is inside of me if only I allow myself to hear her. I gained so much from Kaya and Lisa's honest real life anecdotes, because everyone has difficult parenting moments and they can be a lesson on how you can change your responses in the future- rather than ending up in the bottomless pit of mother guilt. I cannot recommend the course highly enough to all mothers. Thank you so much Kaya and Lisa xxx "

Katrina Flynn
(Mother of 2)

What You'll Receive:

'Calm Mama, Peaceful Family' was created with busy mothers in mind. It’s an online, home study program divided into 12 multimedia workshops. All the videos, audio classes, worksheets, journals, meditations and summary posters can be accessed online or downloaded for offline use. You can go through it in your own time, as you need or you can have us guide and prompt you each step of the way through email (you get to choose what suits you).

Each workshop includes-

An introductory, short video where we summarise the topic & how it fits into the whole course, and emphasise any important things to take note of in the workshop
A 60-90 minute audio class delivered in 15-20 minute sections. Each section has a written description so you can see what it contains, choose what to listen to when and easily go back to the sections you need
A Guided ‘Campfire’ Meditation and journal that connects you with your Inner Wisdom and takes you on an inner healing journey related to the workshop topic. Just taking yourself through this series of 12 meditations is completely transformational
Comprehensive worksheets and journals to get the most out of every interactive exercise in the workshop
An Art Poster (sometimes 2 or 3) that encapsulate the core teachings and practices from the workshop. When you print them out and post them up in your home they remind you of what you need to practice in-the-moment
A private membership area for you to comment, ask questions, share insights, aha’s and celebrations

The 12 workshops are delivered in 4 modules:

Workshop 1- Master the foundational building blocks to all conscious parenting

In this workshop you’ll learn and truly integrate the foundational practices you need in place before any communication techniques and conflict resolution skills will ever be effective.
Work on self awareness, setting powerful intentions, empathy and presence in moments of conflict AND before you even open your mouth or find yourself in conflict... and all the other work will be 1000 times more effective.

Workshop 2- Come into your embodied feminine power and EVERYTHING becomes easier

In this workshop you’ll discover how to parent from an untapped stream of powerful energy that’s natural to you because you are a woman and a mother.
It’s been trained out of you by society, but once you know how to connect in with this energy in just minutes each day, you’ll feel so much more vitality, spaciousness and you’ll have everything you need (on a deep, embodied level) to become the woman and mother you truly are instead of the woman and mother everybody expects you to be.

Workshop 3- Know your own inner truth and always have the ultimate parenting expert within, guiding your way

In this workshop you’ll get super clear on your core values as a mother and deeply connected with your own intuitive voice.
You’ll learn how to follow your own inner compass that will always be guiding you to the words and actions that are for the highest good of you and your children together.

Workshop 4- Work with Anger & Stressful Thoughts in ways that heal, empower, build bridges and connect

In this workshop you’ll practice whole new ways to navigate triggering thoughts that would have previously set you off into yelling or other unconscious communication habits.

You’ll also learn how to constructively work with anger and other strong emotions in times of conflict. This helps you to relate with your children in non-harming and connecting ways while still honouring yourself and your own feelings and needs.

Workshop 5- Do the deep inner healing and reclaiming work you are ready for- Liberate yourself and your children from destructive patterns once and for all

In this workshop you’ll heal your ‘shadows’ (those parts of you that you make wrong and have avoided working on). When not worked on, your shadows continue to hold power over your reactions especially in conflict. They are what has you stuck in destructive patterns for years, no matter how much you try to change.

When you do this work you become liberated from destructive habits like never before and you are able to truly, sustainably change the ways you show up as a mother.

Workshop 6- Learn the art of saying NO and setting effective boundaries without disconnecting from your child or diminishing their spirits in any way

In this workshop you’ll understand why so many gentle, conscious mothers have trouble setting boundaries as our culture usually defines them. You’ll learn a whole new way of knowing, claiming and communicating your boundaries while remaining compassionate, playful and connected with your child.

This is such important work because no mother can continue to be calm, gentle and giving if you have no healthy way to know, claim and express your boundaries.

Workshop 7- Speak your Truth in ways that will be heard, received and respected

In this workshop you’ll take what you’ve learned and integrated in the the previous workshops and move even more directly into how to effectively communicate.

You’ll learn ways to express yourself so that you can truly be received and heard and bring your needs into the equation without taking away from anyone else. All the communication tools you’ll come to use will enhance connection and create way more effective and creative outcomes in your family.

Workshop 8- Hold a Safe, Loving Listening Space as a gift of healing and sacred connection with your child

In this workshop you’ll learn and practice the art of Holding Space as a path to healing, peace and connection.

You’ll experience the incredible power of listening fully and receiving those you love. The transformations that open up for your loved ones (and for you) through your holding space are immense and life changing yet simple and gentle to apply.

Workshop 9- Effectively mediate any family conflict, lighting the way back to peace and connection

In this workshop you’ll learn how best to mediate sibling conflict and conflict between your partner and child, helping them work through it consciously and also empowering them to work through it on their own.

Like with all the conscious communication tools in the course, the intention is to work through any relational dynamic consciously and strengthen the connections between you all.

Workshop 10- Give Effective Feedback that empowers and creates the change you want.

In this workshop you’ll learn how to give feedback to your child or partner in ways that that actually empowers them, lifts them up and creates the transformation you were hoping for.

It is ok to want to say things to your loved ones in the hope of changing their behaviour but the ways people most go about doing it are ineffective and disconnecting, this workshops teaches you another way.

Workshop 11- Move well Beyond Judgment, Fear and Competition with other mothers and create the true spaces of sisterhood you need

This workshop begins the sisterhood module, the final 2 workshops. You may not have ever seen a section on relationships between mothers in a parenting course but we’ve found it to be a really important and pivotal relationship to work on to create the wholistic change all mothers long for.

In this workshop you’ll learn how judgment and competition between mothers negatively affects your parenting. How you can be a part of creating a new, empowering, supportive paradigm of community (or Sisterhood) where every mother becomes her own expert and takes back her power rather than seeking external validation and perpetuating the culture of judgment and competition.

Workshop 12- Be a part of a New Paradigm of mothers in supportive community, lifting each other and all children up, creating a new world of way more cooperation, peace and connection

In this workshop you learn new and concrete ways to create the community support around you that you need.

You’ll begin to implement support systems that nourish you, your sisters and your families on an emotional, spiritual, psychological and practical level- creating the ‘village’ you need around you in ways that fit in with your lifestyle and help you continue to come back into the mother you most truly are.

... and, as if the course wasn’t enough to get you yelling less, bringing more peace into your home and creating the world changing, long lasting connections you long for with your children ...

We’re also gifting you with several powerful bonuses that are worth well over the whole investment of the program themselves and they have been helping mothers transform seemingly stuck conflict (within themselves and in their families) for years. They can also help you go even deeper in the course, should you choose to use them alongside it.

We know you’re busy and it's not necessary to go through the bonuses to get epic value from the course, but once you’ve gone through the core workshops, you’ll find so much changes in your daily life as a mother, that you’ll have more time and spaciousness and you’ll feel ready to expand even further and create even more magic and connection in your family and these bonuses will be there for you. You don’t have to stress about getting through them, you can keep them in your digital library or download them for later use and one day you’ll be ready to come back to them.

Bonus 1: Use The Power of the Single Practice to actually turn what you learn into living action! [Value = $47]

A bonus pack of video, journals and guided audios on how to best learn and apply new information so that it has you actually changing habits and family patterns in your everyday life and especially in times of conflict.

This is the key to staying out of information overload and truly creating the change you need and want.

Bonus 2: Access into our sisterhood- our intimate, incredibly safe and sacred client FB group.

Included in this group is a monthly, live Q&A with us. [Value = $397]

When you register, you become our client (not just an anonymous student), we’re active in the the FB group, you can bring any questions to us in the Q&A calls and be a part of an incredibly powerful sisterhood. The FB group can be a place of support, safety and gentle accountability (when you want it) and a place to learn and grow from each other’s journeys. Engaging with others means you can move exponentially further and faster through the course and into embodying the mother you most want to be. You don’t need to go it alone.

Bonus 3: Shift your family shit... with love -Coaching series [Value= $97]

A compact yet powerful coaching series (videos, audios & worksheets) to totally transform complex, repeating dynamics in your family. The ones that seem too entrenched to change and especially the ones that leave you feeling hopeless or are driving you a little (or a lot) crazy. You'll understand them and then transform them with Consciousness, Collaboration and Respect for all your family members.

You bring your family’s specific needs and your own intuitive wisdom to the journey… apply it to the process and the solutions will holistically work for your family. On its own, this has already helped transform the family lives of many mothers and their loved ones through changing the patterns they’ve been unconsciously living out together.

Bonus 4: Worksheet Series to Grow & Heal Family Connection [Value = $37]

The reason conscious communication and conflict resolution is so needed and wanted in families is because we want to be connected with each other, we want to feel real, genuine, healthy connection with those we love.

These worksheets, journals and interactive posters help you build that connection outside of conflict, before shit is going down, in the everydayness of life.They bring more love, meaningful ritual, intention, play and genuine connection into your days, weeks and years together. They are fun and hugely insightful when you work with them together with your family.

Working on connection is important and fulfilling in and of itself but it is also an important part of conflict resolution and conscious communication because disconnection of some form is often at the core of what’s not working so when you bring in these family activities you will have less conflict and misunderstanding to navigate!

Bonus 5: Coach in your Pocket Audio Series- A whole suite of mini meditations and guided processes that bring you into the optimal headspace to live what you learn daily [Value = $67]

In the intensity of everyday motherhood, do you ever wish you had someone there to remind of what’s truly important to you?

In this set of MP3 audios we are here to guide you in those small pockets of time. You can put them on your phone (many of our clients do), take a few minutes listening and following along and you’ll come back so much more ready, able and equipped to parent consciously.

Some of the audios, you’ll just want to pull out when you’re facing a specific thing (like calming down when you’re triggered, making a decision, cooling down and finding mental clarity after a conflict) and some are more regular, 'use any time' meditations like our Womb Space meditation and ‘Claiming your daily mothering mojo’.

All of the audios are short and designed to support you as if you had a parenting coach in your pocket for whenever you need it :-)

Bonus 6: The Conscious Mama’s Communication Kit [Value = $47]

A complete e-kit to Learn and Implement Conscious Communication by taking it back to it’s Essence-
No mental anguish over what to say, when and in what order

Beginning with the art of being Conscious, this kit guides you back to your Intentions and builds the communication on from there.
It guides you into a new mindset that is easy to grasp and apply in the moment and that authentically flows into action.

Once you have the mindset and Intentions in place, we give you over 100 conscious communication strategies across the same 4 spheres of conscious communication that are within module 3 of this course. You’ll have the resources and awareness to create your own customised communication program and implement what you need, when you need it most.

Total Bonus Value = $392
Available to you FREE when you register for the course!

"Lisa and Kaya have completely changed the way I think about parenting, about life, about my children and about my partner! My life is now filled with connection rather than disconnection."

Tara Gilding
(Mother of 3)