Dear tired, stressed out Mother,

I know you’re often exhausted and overwhelmed.  The demands of parenting children is a huge and often unrecognised job. It has no knock-off hours, no weekends, no holidays, no sick days. 

It can feel isolating at times, like a long endless ground hog day…

At other times it can feel like an overwhelming river of high intensity craziness… where you have no idea what you’re doing.

But you are raising the next generation of the planet.

On the one hand, how inspiring is this?! 

It reminds you of the sacredness of the job you are doing

….and on the other hand it can scare you silly, given you feel completely unqualified to do that justice.

Your children are growing every moment, learning; in a state of constant change. In fact, though it may not feel like it, they are growing up rapidly.  Their childhoods will be over in a blink of an eye.

They will take over the running of the planet, and like all mothers I know you hope they’ll contribute to society in a positive meaningful way that enriches the world and themselves.

You already know you want to give them a nurturing, healthy, positive and loving environment. You probably have a picture in your head for what that looks like, that dream you’ve made your mission to provide right?

I also know you love your children - heart and soul.  It’s a level of love that most of us never felt until we became mothers.

I get that there are days that you feel like you are totally failing as a mother and screwing your children up in the process.

• You lose your patience, where you yell at the spilt juice or the toys all over the floor that you just tripped on.
• Your boundaries are stretched too thin and you snap and lash out.
• Your doubt and fear overtake you and you mask it with anger, shaming, blaming, or nagging that does nothing but create a sense of hurt and distance… but nothing else seems to get through.
• Your frustration bubbles over and you don’t think you can bear to argue about the TV one more time.
• The day spirals down into endless battles and conflicts with resentment and anger on all sides.

I get there are days where you long to run away (even if it’s just to the bathroom), to just sit in silence with no demands on you; to get away and breakdown, not because  you don’t love your children, but because you feel past where you can cope and out of ideas.

I also get the fear and shame when you see they way your children lash out. The way they speak to each other, to you. 

The days where you feel completely unheard - and resort to yelling and punishment in a desperate attempt to restore order.

Or all the times your partner communicates with the children in ways that you feel are harmful and you step in to protect them creating more conflict, anger and resentment on all sides.

So here’s the deal.

You absolutely can create peace, connection and co-operation in your home.

• You can feel in a place of authentic and loving leadership in your home without feeling like you need to resort to yelling, nagging or punishing.
• You can feel calm and in control in the face of conflict.  You can approach situations with a toolset that allows you to not only hear and understand everyone without being triggered, but also feel really heard by them!
  
• Your children can grow to use their words to solve problems, to consider the needs of others in their decision making, and to apologise authentically and voluntarily when they do hurt someone.
• You can radically change the way communication is happening in your whole family
• You can dramatic increase the connection and quality of ALL your relationships in your home, from your children to your partner.
• You can feel more spacious and create a family life that doesn’t have you feeling overwhelmed and frazzled.
• You can absolutely create that picture of how you want your family life and your experience of motherhood to be… on a daily basis in reality.
  

But if you want real change...
Just learning another theory or memorising another strategy won't cut it (it can actually make you more despondent, as the distance between what you know in theory and what you actually do in the moment moves further apart).

You need to experience those changes in-the-moment, as you’re living the full and intense life of a mother navigating conflict.

And that is what this course will give you. 
It bridges the gap between the learning and the actual doing. 

It's a deep dive into the consciousness shifts it takes to create real, sustainable peace and connection in your home. 
The tools, theories and strategies are in there but not without the guidance to really take them in, embody them and apply them, to naturally and authentically own them within yourself.

This is not about learning a new script, 1,2,3 tool or hack :) This is rewiring the entire way you and your family handles conflict and being able to act from that new place in the triggering, 'everything happening at once' moments of motherhood.

You WILL rewire the way you communicate, handle conflict in your family, and watch ALL the relationships in your family transform.

• Everything you need to show up as the conscious, connected mother that you truly can be if you weren’t so stretched, exhausted and overwhelmed
• Simple yet powerful (and mostly untapped) ways to feel way more energy & clarity that are inherently available to you as a woman and a mother
• The awareness and presence to choose conscious, connecting communication over reactive, disconnecting communication
• A deep sense of confidence and peace within yourself as a mother
• The exact roadmap to becoming the unique and best mother you know you need to be for your children
• The power to be a strong, effective and respected voice in your family without compromising your values or losing your connection with your children

We truly believe that, like the women who have gone before you in this course, you’ll get immense value from it.

At the same time, we want to make the choice easy and risk free for you. It’s important to us that we foster an energy of trust and safety and this starts right now in your decision to join us.

After you join us for the first 30 days, if you decide that it is not for you, we’ll refund your money (no questions asked) and we’ll always love you 🙂

Ever since we started actively living and teaching it this work years ago… our family lives are richer, and far more peaceful. Our relationships with our children, our partners and co-parents are stronger, and more connected and our days flow with more joy and ease (for everyone in our families).

Conflicts still happen but they're approached as an opportunity to understand each other more and create a solution that works for everyone.

Our children are actively involved, their emotional empathy has grown and their problem solving skills have expanded...
But what has changed the most dramatically is us. What has most changed is our moment by moment self awareness and the way we feel as we move through our days and interact with our families.

We love our lives! We love our families and we love waking up each day ready to experience life fully, with joy and active participation. We are calmer and more present and we have space for more in our lives.

We're more conscious of where everyone’s energy is at (including our own) and who needs what and when. We have fun and feel at ease as we move through the days with our children.
And that is what we want to share with you!!

So many mothers with grown children have told us they wish they had resources like this when their children were young, they realise in hindsight how infinitely valuable and important it is to do this work... the profound ripple effect it has & how vital it is to your own fulfilment to have really worked on your self awareness and your relationships in those precious years your children are young... So if you feel the call, join us!